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		<title>No unfair treatment: 127 Hours</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last night, Nancy &#38; I watched the movie 127 Hours, which friends had recommended and justly garnered 6 Oscar nominations. James Franco does a great job of re-enacting the story of an wilderness adventurer (Aron Ralston) who appears to be stuck between a rock and a hard place. Without spoiling the plot (too much), the [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_" addthis:url='http://www.acimblog.com/no-unfair-treatment-127-hours/' addthis:title='No unfair treatment: 127 Hours ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last night, Nancy &amp; I watched the movie 127 Hours, which friends had recommended and justly garnered 6 Oscar nominations. James Franco does a great job of re-enacting the story of an wilderness adventurer (Aron Ralston) who appears to be stuck between a rock and a hard place. Without spoiling the plot (too much), the account of his courage, stamina and ingenuity makes a fine caricature of the lengths to which we all go to try to establish and preserve an intact separate identity (with our bodies playing the starring hero role in the dream.) At the physically pivotal point in the film, he liberates himself from the limitation that appears to have held him captive. Prior to this, however, at what one might identify as the spiritual pivot point of the film, he chooses real freedom as he recounts to himself:</p>
<p>&#8220;You know, I&#8217;ve been thinking. Everything is&#8230; just comes together. It&#8217;s me. I chose this. I chose all this. &#8230; I&#8217;ve been moving towards it my entire life. The minute I was born, every breath that I&#8217;ve taken, every action has been leading me to this &#8230;&#8221; *</p>
<p>Perhaps this revelation is exactly what gives him the option to do what leads to the best possible outcome for this story, given the premise of the circumstances. We&#8217;ve all experienced these box canyon moments, when our choices have appeared to have been narrowed to just two; between feeling sorry for our self-imposed predicaments or set free by forgiving ourselves for the folly of feeling trapped.</p>
<p>Most of us run away from this depth of realization like the plague. Yet isn&#8217;t this exactly what any metaphysical system worth it&#8217;s pure non-dual foundation is gently reminding us of, 24/7? What if we were to freely abandon all thoughts of martyrdom for every dream event – from the most dramatic, as in this movie&#8217;s example – to the most seemingly trivial events that seem to disturb our peace? What if we looked down at the copy of the screenplay for the holographic movie of our lives, courageously examined the fine print at the bottom of the page, and saw our own signature? The only appropriate response would be to laugh, treat ourselves and each other (since we&#8217;re all perfect mirrors) with total kindness. As the protagonist in this film recounts favorite past life episodes of family, friends and life choices in a series of flashbacks, we get the impression that he realizes the true value of these relationships which transcend the special and specific incidents (or perhaps that&#8217;s just my projection onto the film? <img src='http://www.acimblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  To his video camcorder he shares &#8220;I love you guys &#8230; I&#8217;ll always be with you.&#8221;</p>
<p>In any case, I might not ever drink Sauvignon Blanc again. (You&#8217;ll have to see the film, if you haven&#8217;t already to appreciate this.)</p>
<p><em> *  (Thanks to the folks at <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1542344/">IMDB</a> for providing the quote, excerpted above.)</em></p>
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		<title>Inception and Forgiving the Dream We Made Up</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 13:41:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This past week, the illusion of the dream figure I call Bruce trekked across the street twice to watch the movie Inception. Like the Matrix series, I can skip the gratuitous violence, but enjoyed the IDEAS in the film immensely. A quick update; I just saw this very cool clip which is almost like a [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_" addthis:url='http://www.acimblog.com/inception-and-forgiving-the-dream-we-made-up/' addthis:title='Inception and Forgiving the Dream We Made Up ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This past week, the illusion of the dream figure I call Bruce trekked across the street twice to watch the movie Inception. Like the Matrix series, I can skip the gratuitous violence, but enjoyed the IDEAS in the film immensely.</p>
<p>A quick update; I just saw this very cool clip which is almost like a &#8216;Cliff Notes&#8217; vignette of the Inception movie in musical and special effects form; a fun rendition of &#8220;<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AZ5WPXxNzPU"> Across the Universe (with the &#8216;Nothing&#8217;s Gonna Change My World&#8217; lyric; a fave Beatles tune) by Fiona Apple</a>; talk about calm in the center of the dream cyclone! <img src='http://www.acimblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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<p>Here&#8217;s a comment I just posted on my Facebook page about a review that hit many of the key ideas: waking up from dreams, projections, and yes, even forgiveness and unconscious guilt were mentioned (albeit briefly) in the film:</p>
<p>Just read a great review of the movie Inception; here&#8217;s my reply:</p>
<p>Great review: <a href="http://bluemoonhuntress.wordpress.com/2010/07/18/making-the-leap-of-faith-in-a-dream-philosophical-reflections-on-christopher-nolans-inception-2010/" target="_blank">Making the leap of faith in a dream: Philosophical reflections on Christopher Nolan’s “Inception” (2010)</a>, thanks! There are numerous hints in the film about the importance of forgiving our projections (the people and situations the egoic mind uses to keep us in the dream of separation and duality); our kindnesses and shared interests are the totems that awaken us with a gentle &#8220;kick&#8221; out of the addiction to unconscious guilt as you mention in this paragraph:</p>
<p>&#8220;Thus, resolution has something to do with the retrieval and acknowledgement of a hidden or repressed truth, followed by the work of letting go. Unless this is done, the burden of unconscious negative emotions (e.g. fear, guilt, anger, etc.) will continue to suck your psychic energy, preventing you from functioning and thriving.&#8221;</p>
<p>I highly recommend the work of Ken Wapnick, Gary Renard, &amp; Nouk Sanchez/Tomas Vieira as complements or intros to A Course In Miracles to explore the dream metaphor more deeply and how we can use true forgiveness as the universal totem for gently awakening from a nightmare we forgot we made up. When I walked into the theater to watch Inception, I laughed silently, realizing I was already at least a couple of dream/theater levels deep! <img src='http://www.acimblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Another favorite &#8216;virtual reality&#8217; genre film: <a href="http://astore.amazon.com/intent-20/detail/B00005YU1O" target="_blank">Waking Life</a>. In this animated film, the protagonist is given the suggestion that you can tell if you&#8217;re dreaming by flicking a light switch, and if the light goes on or off, then you&#8217;re not dreaming. Interestingly, I had a dream (of the nocturnal variety! <img src='http://www.acimblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  shortly after watching this movie, and in that dream, the light DID go on and off when I was toggling the switch in my dream within a dream world on a stairway landing! <img src='http://www.acimblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  Perhaps the only &#8216;real&#8217; totems are those that help us gently laugh and kindly forgive ourselves for making the world up in the first place (undoing the dream of duality and separation.)</p>
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<h3>Addendum (added 27Nov2011; contributed by Nancy Bolton-Rawles):</h3>
<p>When Ariadne finds Mal in the basement of Cobb&#8217;s memories, she starts to tell Mal her name but Mal cuts her off: &#8220;I know who you are.&#8221; How does Mal know who Ariadne is?</p>
<p>Since Mal is Cobb&#8217;s projection, if he knows her, then Mal should know her as well. If you&#8217;re looking at the film metaphysically, Mal (&#8216;Bad&#8217; or &#8216;Evil&#8217; in Latin, French, Spanish and Portuguese) is the dream figure in Cobbs mind who symbolises his guilt. Guilt is undone by forgiveness. Ariadne symbolises innocence and forgiveness and shares this key with Cobb, telling him the only way to undo his guilt and free himself from  his dream-hell is to forgive both Mal and himself. She is thus recognised by Mal as her enemy, as her message of forgiveness will free Cobb from Mal&#8217;s control.</p>
<p>http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1375666/faq#.2.1.51</p>
<p>The &#8220;Penrose stairs&#8221; (with a woman perpetually picking up papers) that Arthur shows Ariadne is a reference to a lithograph print by the Dutch graphic artist M.C. Escher. The print is usually called &#8220;Ascending and Descending&#8221; or &#8220;The Infinite Staircase&#8221;, and was first printed in March 1960; Escher is well-known for his drawings exploring optical illusions and real architectural, mathematical, and philosophical principles rendered in fantastical ways.</p>
<p>Ariadne, in Greek mythology, was the daughter of King Minos of Crete and his queen, Pasiphaë. She aided Theseus in overcoming the Minotaur by giving him a ball of red fleece thread that she was spinning, so that he could find his way out of the Minotaur&#8217;s labyrinth. The name is also a reference to Hugo von Hofmannsthal&#8217;s setting of the myth for Richard Strauss&#8217;s opera Ariadne auf Naxos. The opera is a play within a play, just as the movie is a dream within a dream.</p>
<p>Marion Cotillard&#8217;s character is called &#8216;Mal&#8217;, short for name &#8216;Malorie&#8217;, a name derived from French word &#8216;malheur&#8217;, meaning misfortune or unhappiness. The shorter version &#8216;mal&#8217; means wrong/bad or evil (when a noun) in French, as well as some other Latin-based languages.</p>
<p>Mal&#8217;s totem, a spinning top, is (probably) a reference to the Clifford D. Simak&#8217;s story &#8216;Ring Around the Sun&#8217; where the spinning top is used as a way to skip from one parallel Earth to another (by way of helping characters to concentrate).</p>
<p>The first letter of each of the main character&#8217;s first names &#8211; Dom, Robert, Eames, Arthur/Ariadne, Mal, Sato &#8211; spell the word DREAMS.</p>
<p>http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1375666/trivia</p>
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		<title>The Youngbloods &#8211; Get Together &#8211; lyrics</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jan 2010 09:18:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This category is envisioned as a place to take familiar song lyrics and have some fun reinterpreting with guidance from our Real, Universal Self. To start us off, here are some favorite lyrics that are almost cliché, but you know, they really stand the test of time (or eternity in this case The Youngbloods &#8211; [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_" addthis:url='http://www.acimblog.com/the-youngbloods-get-together-lyrics/' addthis:title='The Youngbloods &#8211; Get Together &#8211; lyrics ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This category is envisioned as a place to take familiar song lyrics and have some fun reinterpreting with guidance from our Real, Universal Self. To start us off, here are some favorite lyrics that are almost cliché, but you know, they<br />
really stand the test of time (or eternity in this case <img src='http://www.acimblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<h2>The Youngbloods &#8211; Get Together &#8211; lyrics</h2>
<p>Love is but the song we sing,<br />
And fear&#8217;s the way we die<br />
You can make the mountains ring<br />
Or make the angels cry<br />
Know the dove is on the wing<br />
And you need not know why<br />
C&#8217;mon people now,<br />
Smile on your brother<br />
Ev&#8217;rybody get together<br />
Try and love one another right now<br />
Some will come and some will go<br />
We shall surely pass<br />
When the one that left us here*<br />
Returns for us at last<br />
We are but a moments sunlight<br />
Fading in the grass<br />
C&#8217;mon people now,<br />
Smile on your brother<br />
Ev&#8217;rybody get together<br />
Try and love one another right now<br />
If you hear the song I sing,<br />
You must understand<br />
You hold the key to love and fear<br />
All in your trembling hand<br />
Just one key unlocks them both<br />
It&#8217;s there at your command<br />
C&#8217;mon people now,<br />
Smile on your brother<br />
Ev&#8217;rybody get together<br />
Try and love one another right now<br />
Right now<br />
Right now!</p>
<p>* of course, WE left ourselves here, but it IS our Christ/HS Self that returns for us at last <img src='http://www.acimblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  Aside from that footnote, I wouldn&#8217;t change much from this classic gem! <img src='http://www.acimblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Bob Newhart &#8220;Stop It&#8221; Therapy</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to LaUna, Jonathan and several other friends who alerted me to this all-important and SIMPLE technique for undoing the ego!<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_" addthis:url='http://www.acimblog.com/bob-newhart-stop-it-therapy/' addthis:title='Bob Newhart &#8220;Stop It&#8221; Therapy ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks to <a href="http://www.pathoflight.com/" target="_blank">LaUna</a>, <a href="http://www.acimblog.com/true-worthiness/" target="_blank">Jonathan</a> and several other friends who alerted me to this all-important and <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BYLMTvxOaeE" target="_blank">SIMPLE technique for undoing the ego</a>! <img src='http://www.acimblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>How important it is to gently lay down my defenses</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jan 2010 07:21:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jessica Bradshaw</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi All, Thanks for sharing your thoughts and revelations, it&#8217;s so nice to get an idea where we are at on this journey, what comes up and to have a forum to put it out there in the space of like minds and forgiving friends!  Interesting about the body symptoms as I have been confounded [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_" addthis:url='http://www.acimblog.com/gently-lay-down-my-defenses/' addthis:title='How important it is to gently lay down my defenses ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi All,<br />
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and revelations, it&#8217;s so nice to get an idea where we are at on this journey, what comes up and to have a forum to put it out there in the space of like minds and forgiving friends!  Interesting about the body symptoms as I have been confounded with a persistent wave of feeling incredibly fatigued and energy-less.  I&#8217;ve been questioning &#8220;What does this mean?&#8221; as if it were a problem and then wondered how would Holy Spirit view this?  I&#8217;ve given up trying to &#8220;figure it out&#8221; and just accepted I don&#8217;t know what this means but I can hand it over to HS with as much grace as I can muster and accept it as part of the path without my usual need to know.  It is a chance to be gentle with myself  (something relatively new, I&#8217;m starting to like it) and surrender my health and energy to HS which feels like a relief, something I wasn&#8217;t expecting to feel.  And realizing I am projecting a bit of unconscious guilt onto my body so forgiving, handing it over to be seen differently, will put light where my darkness is trying to hide in defense.  I&#8217;m beginning to see how important it is to gently lay down my defenses and be willing to be vulnerable despite the fear that what will be seen will be less than lovable.  By hiding I just confirm to myself that there is something there to hide so best to bite the bullet and put it out there in the Light of forgiveness, acceptance and a family of beautiful friends.<br />
This is not an easy path(!) so I keep reminding myself of the times where I get a palpable sense that I am not alone and of a presence patiently waiting (wait, are you sure?) for a complete relinquishment and surrender to God, Love, Faith.  How hard can that be?  I guess my ego will let me know and (now&#8230;) I am saying gladly, show me what I am holding onto so I can let go of more illusion, hmm, I am so asking for it now, hold on for the inevitable backlash, it&#8217;s on the way and I&#8217;m ready for the wild ride!  The delusion of unworthiness feels so real at times.<br />
After reading about Helen I feel so grateful for having our group, a haven of comfort when the comfort zone is being pushed, I know things are easier for me with our space of love and amazing acceptance when I forget to hold that space for myself, so grateful for all of you!<br />
Okay, last thing, I heard this <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5IqCfxgKZd8" target="_blank">amazing song</a> on the top 40 station, here it is in all it&#8217;s pop glory:<br />
Wait, I&#8217;m wrong,<br />
I should have done better than this,<br />
Please, I&#8217;ll be strong,<br />
I&#8217;m finding it hard to resist,<br />
So show me what I&#8217;m looking for,<br />
Save me, I&#8217;m lost,<br />
Oh, Lord I&#8217;ve been waiting for You,<br />
I&#8217;ll pay any cost,<br />
Save me from being confused,<br />
Show me what I&#8217;m looking for</p>
<p>&#8230;<br />
Love and Light,</p>
<p>Jessica</p>
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